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ACCEPTING WHAT ISN'T

I know it's hard...sometimes it’s easier to keep thinking we have the ability to change things that are out of our control, than it is to face the reality that we don’t, that that something exists within the orbit of our life that we can’t do anything about - because it belongs to someone else. But, we can do something. When we accept the reality of the unchangeable thing, only then, do we open the doors of our mind to see what could be. What we can do with what we do have control over, our own lives; our choices, our words, and our actions. The thing is, that as long as we only focus on that thing we cannot change, we give up our power to it.  In actuality, there is always a way out of a difficult situation we have no control over, it starts with acceptance that it exists and accepting the fact that we can’t change it, your mind will then on it’s own start to see the power, the beauty, the resources, the freedom...of what IS possible, but only after we let go of what isn’t.

💕 Hugs & Happy Life, Love & Parenting,

Julie L Gibson-Vasquez
Life, Love & Parenting Coach
Idyllwild's Life, Love & Parenting - Social/Emotional Support Center
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